At 6, I Promised My Best Friend with Down Syndrome We’d Go to Prom Together – 12 Years Later, Mom Said I Could Go with Him Only on One Condition

brain could think of.

“But first we have to go to prom.”

Noah frowned.

“What’s prom?”

“A dance.”

“We have dances now.”

“No. Prom is when we’re almost grown-ups.”

He thought about that.

Then he held out his pinkie.

“Promise?”

I hooked mine around his.

“Promise.”

I forgot about it before dinner.

Noah didn’t.

Twelve years is a long time for a friendship to survive childhood.

Ours somehow did.

We didn’t have every class together.

We made other friends.

We developed completely different interests.

Noah became obsessed with baseball.

I became obsessed with art.

He tried teaching me baseball statistics.

I retaliated by dragging him through museums.

Neither campaign succeeded.

Then, when we were twelve, my parents divorced.

That changed me more than I understood at the time.

Dad moved twenty minutes away.

Mom started pretending she wasn’t crying.

I started pretending I didn’t notice.

At school, I stopped eating