Because I was still completing my overseas contract, I invited my mother to move in immediately. I couldn’t bear the thought of that house sitting empty while she stayed in the cramped apartment she’d rented for two decades. I set up an automated monthly allowance transfer of three thousand dollars
directly into her bank account to cover utilities, groceries, and personal comfort, anything she wanted, no questions asked, no receipts required. For the first time in her life, I wanted my mother to spend money without doing math in her head first.
